We had an impromptu birthday dinner at our house on Sunday, and Yia Yia Liz came up for the celebration. It was a nice way to honor a very special woman in all of our lives. As I set the table I grabbed the "special occasion" silverware that we got when we were married. When I was a little girl I remember my parents always pulled out the "fancy" silverware to mark special occasions. When I saw them bring out the wooden box it was held in, I knew that we were in for a celebration. Each meal enjoyed with the family silverware was made more exceptional because of this simple addition to the table. As a little girl it never occurred to me that one day I would be setting my own dinner table, and I would need my own special dinnerware.
Before our wedding Michael and I engaged in all the normal planning and preparation. This included the very consumer oriented practice of registering for gifts. It was almost overwhelming to make a list of things we wanted/needed our sweet friends and family to give us. I remember one day we were rushing around busily checking things off our list. My head was swimming and I was exhausted by all the options. The idea of finding something that would last a lifetime and hold that sentiment that I carried from my childhood for our own dinner table seemed impossible. Michael and I had separated in the big store we were shopping in (I'm pretty sure he was busy tagging EVERY picture frame they offered :-) and I was wandering through the dinnerware section. Then suddenly, like I was in a movie, I saw them... I don't mean to sound melodramatic - this is just silverware we are talking about - but really, it was intense! As if on cue the music that is piped in to "accent" your shopping experience did just that. The beginning notes of "What A Wonderful World" sung by the very grandfatherly voice of Louis Armstrong filled the air...
I see trees of green, red roses to.
I see them bloom, for me and you.
And I think to myself, what a wonderful world.
I see skies of blue, clouds of white.
Bright blessed days, dark sacred nights.
And I think to myself, what a wonderful world.
The colors of the rainbow, so pretty, in the sky.
Are also on the faces, of people, going by.
I see friends shaking hand, saying how do you do?
They're really saying I love you.
I hear babies cry, I watch them grow.
They'll learn much more, than I 'll ever know.
And I think to myself, what a wonderful world.
Yes - I think to myself.
What a wonderful world!
I see them bloom, for me and you.
And I think to myself, what a wonderful world.
I see skies of blue, clouds of white.
Bright blessed days, dark sacred nights.
And I think to myself, what a wonderful world.
The colors of the rainbow, so pretty, in the sky.
Are also on the faces, of people, going by.
I see friends shaking hand, saying how do you do?
They're really saying I love you.
I hear babies cry, I watch them grow.
They'll learn much more, than I 'll ever know.
And I think to myself, what a wonderful world.
Yes - I think to myself.
What a wonderful world!
I wandered over to the Mother of Pearl silverware as the music played. As I ran my hand over the display set I imagined all the special dinners we would serve. All of the holidays, and birthdays, and just for fun pancake dinners where we would use these knives and forks and spoons. I imagined the little hands of our children learning to hold them. I thought about the fact that when they saw these utensils they would know that it was time to have a memorable meal. Needless to say Michael found me crying over the silverware display. Also on cue a salesperson appeared to help us add them to the registry...
...the rest is history. We have begun the process of enjoying the many meals we will share as a family using our "fancy" silverware. As you can see Miles is learning what to do with a spoon.
SO today as we celebrate our five year anniversary I can't help but find myself looking back at how far we've come. I know one thing for sure, that with Michael and Miles in my life, this is truly a wonderful world!
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